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Brain Wiring, Not Character Flaws; Symptoms, not Bad Behavior with RJ Formanek
Feb. 18, 2026

Brain Wiring, Not Character Flaws; Symptoms, not Bad Behavior with RJ Formanek

Ever watch someone recite the rules and still miss the first step? We dive into that gap with FASD advocate RJ Formanek to reveal what’s actually happening under the surface —and why replacing blame with understanding can change a life. We’re talking brain wiring, not character flaws; symptoms, not…
Belonging Begins Before Permission: Nancy Shear Part 2 | Creativity, Mentorship, and Life Inside Music
Feb. 11, 2026

Belonging Begins Before Permission: Nancy Shear Part 2 | Creativity, Mentorship, and Life Inside Music

Send a text The room changes when a true maestro enters—yet the most revealing stories often happen offstage. We sit down with Nancy Shear to explore the hidden lives behind classical music’s brightest names and the personal courage it takes to step through doors that weren’t built for you. From a …
Diagnosis Day: Neurodivergent Parenting-A Segment of Real Talk with Tina and Ann
Feb. 7, 2026

Diagnosis Day: Neurodivergent Parenting-A Segment of Real Talk with Tina and Ann

Send us a text Today on Real Talk with Tina and Ann we are talking about neurodivergence and share a raw, practical look at “diagnosis day,” advocacy, and the tools that actually help our kids thrive. Nothing about our kids changed with labels; only our map did, and that map guides support with les…
Belonging Begins Before Permission: Nancy Shear’s Story Inside the Mind of Music’s Greats
Feb. 4, 2026

Belonging Begins Before Permission: Nancy Shear’s Story Inside the Mind of Music’s Greats

Send us a text A teenage girl finds her way through the stage door and into the inner life of a great orchestra, learning how courage, craft and attention can open rooms that seem shut. Nancy Shear reflects on mentors, trauma, Stokowski’s charisma and the quiet work that shapes sound. • sneaking in…
Right On Time: Growth that Waits for Safety
Jan. 28, 2026

Right On Time: Growth that Waits for Safety

What if you’re not behind at all—you’re right on time for a life that finally feels like yours? We dive into nonlinear living and redefine progress as capacity, not speed. Instead of chasing milestones and highlight reels, we talk about the quiet work that actually changes us: noticing overwhelm so…
He Polished My Soul: When You Only Have One Quill Left with Deborah Weed
Jan. 21, 2026

He Polished My Soul: When You Only Have One Quill Left with Deborah Weed

Send us a text We sit with creator Deborah Weed to explore how love, loss, and art can coexist, and why self-worth must be defined from within. Her stories of hospice dignity, cross-country wandering, and the evolution of Paisley the Musical point to a courageous path back to voice and purpose. • h…
Fear is not a Prophecy: Living, Showing Up, Advocating and taking Charge
Jan. 14, 2026

Fear is not a Prophecy: Living, Showing Up, Advocating and taking Charge

Send us a text Tina and Ann explore gratitude that tells the truth in crisis: not a list, but a lifeline beside cancer, caregiving, and long grief. Kara Lockwood’s story and Robert Emmons’ research anchor practical ways to find small joys that help us keep showing up. • Cara Lockwood’s remission st…
When Your Own Body Throws a Plot Twist: A Survival Comedy with Best Selling Author Cara Lockwood
Jan. 7, 2026

When Your Own Body Throws a Plot Twist: A Survival Comedy with Best Selling Author Cara Lockwood

Fear is not the enemy, until it starts running the show. In this episode, we sit down with USA Today bestselling author Cara Lockwood (aka Cara Tanamachi) to discuss her book, There Is No Good Book for This But I Wrote One An...
Rethinking Possible: Acceptance, Autism, And A Life Rebuilt
Dec. 31, 2025

Rethinking Possible: Acceptance, Autism, And A Life Rebuilt

Send us a text We trace a life rebuilt through acceptance, humor, and purpose, from paralysis and autism advocacy to grief, faith, and the daily practice of choosing better. The path moves from why to how, from pity to power, and from isolation to community through Pathfinders for Autism. • trackin…
Rethinking Possible, When Life Throws Curveballs, Build a Batting Cage
Dec. 24, 2025

Rethinking Possible, When Life Throws Curveballs, Build a Batting Cage

Send us a text Some stories don’t fit inside neat arcs. Rebecca Galli’s life holds a brother gone at 17, a son who passed at 15, two children with special needs, and sudden paralysis nine days after divorce. What unfolds is not a list of tragedies but a blueprint for living when certainty disappear…
Hope on the Border part 2: I Love the Me I See in You with Gil Gillenwater
Dec. 17, 2025

Hope on the Border part 2: I Love the Me I See in You with Gil Gillenwater

We follow a wrong turn that became a mission and explore how dignity-based service transforms both givers and receivers. Gil shows how housing, education, and reciprocity can turn charity into equity, and why true joy is found when we serve. • enlightened self-interest and why service elevates the …
Border of Hope: I love the Me I See in You with Gil Gillenwater
Dec. 10, 2025

Border of Hope: I love the Me I See in You with Gil Gillenwater

We bring the border into focus as a lived place, not a line, and confront how wealth disparity, US demand, and policy choices shape human lives. Gil Gillenwater shows why enlightened self interest, housing with dignity, and education beat walls and fear. • wealth disparity between $18 an hour and $…
Life in Tandem: Love, Loss, and Identity After Stroke with Stroke Onward's Deb Meyerson and Steve Zuckerman
Dec. 3, 2025

Life in Tandem: Love, Loss, and Identity After Stroke with Stroke Onward's Deb Meyerson and Steve Zuckerman

Send us a text A single weekend can reroute a life. When Deborah Meyerson, a tenured Stanford professor, suffered a stroke that stole her speech and altered her body, she and her husband, Steve Zuckerman, had to reimagine everything—career, communication, purpose, and the very shape of partnership.…
November 25, 1975: 50 years after the loss of my Dad
Nov. 25, 2025

November 25, 1975: 50 years after the loss of my Dad

Send us a text The Tuesday before Thanksgiving can feel ordinary—until it isn’t. Fifty years ago, a dad kissed his child goodbye and didn’t come home, and that single day rewrote every holiday that followed. We open the door to that memory and walk through its rooms: the neighbor who showed up at s…
Even Here, We Are Thankful
Nov. 25, 2025

Even Here, We Are Thankful

Send us a text A glossy holiday is easy to post, but the real story of Thanksgiving often lives in the places that ache. This year, our table looks different—empty chairs, fading memories, and traditions that no longer fit who we are now. Still, gratitude finds a seat beside grief. We talk about th…
Beyond Shame: The Freedom of Hearing “It’s Not Your Fault with RJ Formanek on Living with FASD part 2
Nov. 19, 2025

Beyond Shame: The Freedom of Hearing “It’s Not Your Fault with RJ Formanek on Living with FASD part 2

Send us a text We dig into life with FASD beyond labels: how shame warps identity, how routines protect mornings, and why late-blooming brains change everything. RJ shares the red shoes origin, practical language for kids, and a hopeful path from rage to self‑acceptance. • removing shame and naming…
What Happens When We Finally Hear It’s Not Your Fault: Rj Formanek's story
Nov. 12, 2025

What Happens When We Finally Hear It’s Not Your Fault: Rj Formanek's story

Send us a text We share real, lived experiences from someone navigating life with FASD: the diagnosis, the data, and the dignity that often get lost in the conversation. Together, we unpack the daily struggles and the deep relief that comes from hearing the words, “It’s not your fault.” What follow…
From Grief to Justice on Death Row: Sophia Laurenzi’s Journey
Nov. 5, 2025

From Grief to Justice on Death Row: Sophia Laurenzi’s Journey

Send us a text We share Sophia Lorenzi’s path from losing her father to suicide to investigating death row cases, tracing how grief, stigma, trauma, and systems shape lives. The heart of the talk: seeing people fully, not as problems to fix, and building care long before crisis. • how invisible cri…
Hot Flashes, Cold Takes, And Why Trucker Hats Are Ageless: Aging OutLOUD with Angela Burk
Oct. 29, 2025

Hot Flashes, Cold Takes, And Why Trucker Hats Are Ageless: Aging OutLOUD with Angela Burk

Send us a text Midlife isn’t a slow fade; it’s a volume knob. We sit down with Angela, the force behind Real Girls Guide and RGG55, to rewrite the script on aging and claim midlife as a comeback. From the lost folder that sparked her book to the candid truths she shares about hormones, identity, an…
How A Young Child Witnessed Exile And Turned Pain Into Power: Ana Hebra Flaster's Story Part 2
Oct. 22, 2025

How A Young Child Witnessed Exile And Turned Pain Into Power: Ana Hebra Flaster's Story Part 2

Send us a text An Interview with Author of Property of the Revolution! This is part 2! A Cuban family escapes with 48 hours’ notice and rebuilds a life defined by work, honor and love, seen through the eyes of a six-year-old who learns to turn pain into power. We trace culture, politics, and identi…
The Heart Remembers: A Young Cuban Immigrant’s Story of Escape, Family, and Finding Home
Oct. 15, 2025

The Heart Remembers: A Young Cuban Immigrant’s Story of Escape, Family, and Finding Home

Send us a text A motorcycle in the barrio. Forty‑eight hours to leave. A nearly six‑year‑old whose world narrows to the sound of an engine and the shape of fear—then widens again across an ocean. We welcome author Ana Hebra Flaster to explore her memoir, Property of the Revolution, and the intimate…
How trauma shaped us, how truth freed us, and how we learned to love differently.
Oct. 8, 2025

How trauma shaped us, how truth freed us, and how we learned to love differently.

Send us a text What if the love you learned was never love at all—but performance, peacekeeping, and fear dressed up as care? Ann sits down with Denise Bard to tell the truth about growing up inside conditional love, the survival roles that helped them get through, and the slow, stubborn work of bu…
Building Kids Who Can Stand on Their Own: A Recipe for Raising Today’s Youth
Oct. 1, 2025

Building Kids Who Can Stand on Their Own: A Recipe for Raising Today’s Youth

Send us a text Randi Crawford, certified life coach and TEDx speaker, joins us to share her “Pickleball Parenting” philosophy. It is a fresh, practical approach to raising resilient kids who can face challenges with confidence and independence. In this episode, Randi talks about the ways modern par…
What Happens When Everything You Know Is a Lie? An Interview with novelist Leslie Rasmussen
Sept. 24, 2025

What Happens When Everything You Know Is a Lie? An Interview with novelist Leslie Rasmussen

Send us a text What happens when everything you believe about your family turns out to be a lie? In this gripping conversation with novelist Leslie Rasmussen, we dive deep into her latest work, "When People Leave, Love Lies and Finding the Truth" – a story that will resonate with anyone who's ever …